The End of Emily and Eric?

I have been saying for a long time that I would write about where things are at with me and Eric. I know I am not obliged to share any of the details at all but am happy to as it is part of how this story began – with our unusual relationship. I have mainly held back as things have felt really volatile so I didn’t really know where things were heading myself, although in my heart I think I really did know what was happening; I just had to accept it.

Anyway, here is the update on that.


We had that conversation yesterday. You know the one. The civil one that is the death knell to any relationship.  Continue reading


Reactions from family and friends

I can honestly say that I have never encountered one negative comment from anybody that knows the truth about my situation and that is quite a few people.

When I embarked on this journey I was sharing an apartment in Sydney with my brother which is actually the best place I could have been. When everything happened with my back he also encouraged me to go on the donor list with IVF and go it alone.  Continue reading