I feel sick (blood)

I just got the call about my beta. It was only 2700 which I thought sounded low but they were happy with it. Right after I went to the loo and there was red blood all over my liner.

I think I’m going to miscarry.

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78 thoughts on “I feel sick (blood)

  1. It could be a SCH!! Very common! I had awful bright red blood POURING out of me and was 1000% sure I was miscarrying. Baby was totally fine, turns out I had a small SCH. I was on bed rest for two weeks and it slowly bled out. Take it super easy, just lay on the couch, try not to move very much, and go in to see the doctor ASAP! Praying everything is okay xoxo

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    • Thanks for all this info. I had to google SCH. Very informative. Clinic isn’t offering an early scan at this stage. Will have to see how it pans out. I don’t have the energy to fight for it at the moment. Xx

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      • Just keep your chin up! I know it’s super hard, but it doesn’t always mean a miscarriage. Just rest if you can, get the bleeding under control. Are you still bleeding or was that it? I hope that was it. When will you get a scan? Thinking about you xoxo

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        • The bleeding seems to have stopped now. No blood today. The crinone came out dark grey which freaked me but google tells me that can be normal when there has been bleeding. They won’t scan me for 2.5 weeks, fuckers. xx

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          • Wow, that’s a really long time. You can always go to the ER if you start bleeding again. That’s a really good sign that the bleeding stopped. Mine stopped the very day it started, and then I just spotted old blood for 1-2 weeks.

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            • OK cool to know. And yeah, it is forever to wait. Based on my lat beta they don’t think I’m as far as what we thought but really, if I’m that far behind then it would have been impossible to fall pregnant as ovulation would have been more than a week after the last time we had sex. ANYWAY no one cares about that (I did tell them) so I’m stuck waiting for the scan…

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                • Well if we were basing on my LMP I”d be 7 weeks…but I know I ovulated late. So based on betas last week I was one week behind and that kinda made sense. So I was going on the fact that I was about 6 weeks. Then when I sent the nurse an email last night asking why I couldn’t have a scan sooner she said it was because the Dr was basing it on my most recent beta number which he thinks is more like a 5 week number. I can’t be 5 weeks. As I said, I didn’t have sex anywhere near 5 weeks. Plus I’ve been having symptoms for 2 weeks which means if I’m only 5 weeks that I was 3 weeks when they started (which is only 1 week post ov) and it just doesn’t make sense. I hope that isn’t too convoluted and you get what I mean. That’s another reason I’m freaking. If my number is lower than they think it should be then it is not a good sign for this pregnancy progress.

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  2. I was gonna say SCH, too. That’s what I had — and before you start thinking, “yeah, but she miscarried,” many, many people have SCH and their babies are totally fine! I really think I miscarried because of the immune stuff, not the SCH. Anyway, your clinic is starting to seriously piss me off. You need a scan. Now. There is no reason not to give you one at this point. I realize things are different in different parts of the world, or even from clinic to clinic, but my clinic had me come in for a scan immediately when I had bright red blood. I think now might be the time to start operation Push For A Scan. I am seriously so pissed for you right now! Why the hell are they making you wait!?

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  3. I know this is nerve wracking, but I’m hopeful this is going to work out for you! Bleeding could be for a lot of reasons, intercourse, progesterone, SCH, praying it is not a miscarriage and your scan is reassuring.

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  4. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this, and that they don’t seem to want to help you out! Even worse that you’re going into the weekend now. I also can’t believe that the ER won’t help you either! Maybe you should fly up here to the US for the weekend to get a scan lol! I hope you make it through the weekend ok and things settle down. Try to hang in there, and get some rest!!!

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  5. I have tears in my eyes. I just don’t want you to go through a miscarriage. I know, nothing I do (or more importantly you do) can change this, but damnit, I wish there was something! I hate that you are stuck waiting for a scan. Arg, I just hate it all for you right now.
    I hope you hear from your clinic and can get an earlier scan. Peace of mind does matter, so the scan is valuable.

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    • This sort of thing must drum up so many memories for you too which would make it emotional. Don’t feel you need to read honey. No luck on getting the scan earlier at the moment. *sigh* Will see what the coming week brings.

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  6. You just can’t know what’s happening, so hope for the best because so many women have bleeding and all ends up beautifully well yet steel for the worst. I sure wish you weren’t heading into a weekend where labs/imaging stalls at medical clinics and you have to wait longer in angst. Not fair. Call on those meditation skills, as novice as they may be, that served you so well at the dentist office. Know that so many of us here reading are wrapping our arms around you, wishing we could somehow just make things totally easy and right. Terri

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  7. Oh no…. 😥 I won’t say “I’m sorry” because it’s not for sure you are. Instead I’m sending loving, supportive and healthy pregnancy thoughts your way. xoxo

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  8. Oh shit – I’m so sorry – didn’t even see this until after I just posted on the other one. Shit shit shit. This is just not right Em, it’s not right and it’s not fair.

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  9. Just back home from vaca & catching up. Not happy posts it seems, but glad it’s subsided for now. Bleeding, spotting, ugh. I repeat: early pregnancy f’n sucks. Wtg on the dentist visit btw!

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